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		<title>Shopping and Accessories &#8211; An Added Service</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 16:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you ready for the Holidays? It&#8217;s crazy to think that it is already that time of year &#8211; but also fun to think of all of the great things we can do for our clients during this time!  Another fun thing &#8211; the online video training that I have developed. I have had a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Are you ready for the Holidays?</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">It&#8217;s crazy to think that it is already that time of year &#8211; but also fun to think of all of the great things we can do for our clients during this time! </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Another fun thing &#8211; the online video training that I have developed. I have had a lot of great conversations about it &#8211; and wanted to share with you just a little taste of what is included!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In redesign, shopping for your client and adding accessories to a home is a great add-on service you can offer your clients.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Watch this video, part of my &#8220;Live&#8221; video series as I talk more about accessories&#8230;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><p><a href="http://www.yourdesignbizblog.com/accessories-added-service/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Don&#8217;t forget you can get full business training that comes with a certification, but also very specific <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/" shape="rect"><span style="color: #000000;">&#8220;LIVE&#8221; video training</span></a> on how to stage a home for sale, including the walk through and evaluation, AND specific <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/" shape="rect"><span style="color: #000000;">&#8220;LIVE&#8221; video training</span></a> on how to redesign a client&#8217;s room using what they already have.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success™,</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></p>
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		<title>Stage Fright?! Part II</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 12:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a fan of the tv show Modern Family? Beside the fact that the show makes me laugh and laugh, I love seeing the completely different homes the main characters live in &#8211; and lucky for them, they all have style! Not everyone is so lucky &#8211; which is good for business!  Nothing is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;">Are you a fan of the tv show Modern Family?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Beside  the fact that the show makes me laugh and laugh, I love seeing the  completely different homes the main characters live in &#8211; and lucky for  them, they all have style!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Not  everyone is so lucky &#8211; which is good for business!  Nothing is more fun  than meeting someone who says they can&#8217;t decorate, and all they want is  for you to make their home beautiful &#8211; my favorite kind of client!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">This  is especially true for &#8220;non-decorator&#8221; types who need to get their home  ready for resale &#8211; they just can&#8217;t &#8220;see&#8221; what needs to happen.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">If  you aren&#8217;t offering Home Staging to your clients &#8211; you really want to  consider it.  And if you have &#8220;stage fright&#8221; &#8211; For the past year I have  been working on <strong>an online training program</strong> that can be accessed immediately to help you add <strong>Home Staging and Redesign</strong> to the services that you offer.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am very pleased to say that the training is now available, and at a GREAT introductory price!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am offering full blown all out business training that comes with a certification, but also very specific <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/">&#8220;LIVE&#8221; video training</a> on how to stage a home for sale, including the walk through and evaluation, AND specific <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/">&#8220;LIVE&#8221; video training</a></span> on how to redesign a client&#8217;s room using what they already have.</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I sincerely do not believe that there is any training like this available any where else!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>In a hurry?  <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/">Go here.</a></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In  honor of the launch of this training, I will be spending the next  several newsletters going over some of the most important aspects of  running a successful business &#8211; and as you know, I think sending  newsletters to your clients is one of those important things!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">So  enjoy the article below on &#8220;Stage Fright Part II&#8221; and please let me know  if you have any questions by contacting me directly &#8211; mary@  Marylarsendesigns.com or just hitting reply to this newsletter.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Enjoy your TV &#8220;home tour&#8221;!!!<br />
Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success™,</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">PS &#8211; welcome to all my new readers!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">PS.  If  you&#8217;re worried about your business outlook, consider adding  home staging or redesign to your business &#8211; learn how by clicking <strong><a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/">HERE</a>.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Stage Fright?! &#8211; Part II</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Stage Fright</strong> can most commonly be defined as <em><strong>&#8220;the fear of performing in front of an audience or group&#8221;</strong></em>.   Now,  I know you aren&#8217;t exactly &#8220;performing&#8221; in front of an audience or a  group when you are staging a home for sale but you are performing for an  audience, that audience being the <strong>potential buyers</strong> of the home.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">So why do we have &#8220;Stage Fright&#8221; when we first start staging homes?  It&#8217;s because <strong>you have been hired as a professional</strong> to help your client prepare their home for sale and you are a key  player in the first impression a potential buyer has of the home.  This  is a big responsibility and can be a little frightening in the  beginning, especially if you&#8217;ve never actually taken part in a real,  live home staging before.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">That&#8217;s why I created my <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com/">&#8220;Live&#8221; Staging videos;</a> to help take some of the fear out of the home staging process and to  give you tips and ideas.  Put yourself in Sterling&#8217;s shoes as you watch  the <strong>&#8220;Live&#8221; videos</strong> of her and me staging a home.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Speaking  of tips and ideas&#8230;as promised, I am going to share more of my tips  and tricks of home staging with you.  In Stage Fright &#8211; Part I, we  talked about <strong>Location, Location, Location</strong>.  Well, it is  such an important topic that I am going to give you a few more ideas  and suggestions on &#8220;Location&#8221; as it relates to staging a home.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Nothing makes more of an impact on a room than the placement of the furniture and accessories.</strong> While in business, you are going to see rooms filled with beautiful  individual items, yet the arrangement, and therefore the overall feel,  diminishes these elements.  You also will see rooms filled with dated  and ugly furniture and accessories, and with the help of your correct  placement, they will end up looking amazingly good.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The key to a successful room is <strong>achieving a sense of balance and proportion</strong> with furniture and accessories.  Your goal is to create a room that feels <strong>harmonious, balanced and connected</strong>.   The secret is to work with the pre-existing planes, lines, and angles  of the space and your items to create your great look.  The following  tips will help you achieve this goal:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Hard and Soft</strong> &#8211; When placing furniture in a living or family room, try to alternate  hard pieces, such as tables and armoires, with soft pieces, such as  upholstered chairs and ottomans.  Too many hard pieces together will  make the room feel hard.  If hard pieces must be placed next to each  other, greenery and plants can be used to soften the edges.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Magic Number Three and the Pleasing Triangle</strong> &#8211; When placing accessories and lighting, your eyes like sets of three.   That is why so many accessories you can buy today already come in a set  of three.  And just like three, your eyes like triangles.  You will see  this in shapes with high, medium, and low, as well as in lighting,  having three points that can create the shape of a triangle throughout  the room.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Too Much of a Good Thing</strong> &#8211; As you work on putting like things with like things, do not go  overboard.  If you have a wall with three doors in it and two tall  windows, placing an armoire on that wall that is virtually of the same  shape will just be too much.  Try to break up the hard lines of the  doors and windows with shaped draperies and strategically placed artwork  to help move the eye up and down.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Follow  these tips when staging your client&#8217;s home, and your work will surely  impress your client &#8211; and all of the people who come to view the home!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">For training, be sure to visit www.certifiedprohomestaging.com !!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success,</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></p>
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		<title>Stage Fright &#8211; Part I</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 17:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finally, Fall is in the air!! The weather has been beautiful, my customers have their wallets open, and I am really looking forward to a great holiday season! For the past year I have been working on an online training program that can be accessed immediately to help people add Home Staging and Redesign to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finally, Fall is in the air!!</p>
<p>The  weather has been beautiful, my customers have their wallets open, and I  am really looking forward to a great holiday season!</p>
<p>For the past year I have been working on <strong>an online training program</strong> that can be accessed immediately to help people add <strong>Home Staging and Redesign</strong> to the services that they offer.</p>
<p>I am very pleased to say that the training is now available, and at a GREAT introductory price!</p>
<p>I am offering full blown all out business training that comes with a certification, but also very specific <a href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=mssho8bab&amp;et=1108002314063&amp;s=0&amp;e=0011QSG1NFDipSI5NK18rYhtWul3gVxspwX0TthASKroKaJr9H48YupNid7zrHSKzDsW5yGx9YnqOYomMC1PlaOGk_PLQUTZ1YmwIOzenVrZ0B5kwRG_Qytf3HNQFjDSpLv" target="_blank">&#8220;LIVE&#8221; video training</a> on how to stage a home for sale, including the walk through and evaluation, AND specific <a href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=mssho8bab&amp;et=1108002314063&amp;s=0&amp;e=0011QSG1NFDipSI5NK18rYhtWul3gVxspwX0TthASKroKaJr9H48YupNid7zrHSKzDsW5yGx9YnqOYomMC1PlaOGk_PLQUTZ1YmwIOzenVrZ0B5kwRG_Qytf3HNQFjDSpLv" target="_blank">&#8220;LIVE&#8221; video training</a> on how to redesign a client&#8217;s room using what they already have.</p>
<p>I sincerely do not believe that there is any training like this available any where else!</p>
<p><strong>In a hurry?  <a href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=mssho8bab&amp;et=1108002314063&amp;s=0&amp;e=0011QSG1NFDipSI5NK18rYhtWul3gVxspwX0TthASKroKaJr9H48YupNid7zrHSKzDsW5yGx9YnqOYomMC1PlaOGk_PLQUTZ1YmwIOzenVrZ0B5kwRG_Qytf3HNQFjDSpLv" target="_blank">Go here.</a></strong></p>
<p>In  honor of the launch of this training, I will be spending the next  several newsletters going over some of the most important aspects of  running a successful business &#8211; and as you know, I think sending  newsletters to your clients is one of those important things!</p>
<p>So  enjoy the article below on &#8220;Stage Fright&#8221; and please let me know if you  have any questions by contacting me directly &#8211; mary@  Marylarsendesigns.com or just hitting reply to this newsletter.</p>
<p>Happy Happy Fall!!!<br />
Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success™,</p>
<p>-Mary</p>
<p>PS &#8211; welcome to all my new readers!</p>
<p>PS.  If  you&#8217;re worried about your business outlook, consider adding  home staging or redesign to your business &#8211; learn how by clicking <strong><a href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=mssho8bab&amp;et=1108002314063&amp;s=0&amp;e=0011QSG1NFDipSI5NK18rYhtWul3gVxspwX0TthASKroKaJr9H48YupNid7zrHSKzDsW5yGx9YnqOYomMC1PlaOGk_PLQUTZ1YmwIOzenVrZ0B5kwRG_Qytf3HNQFjDSpLv" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Stage Fright?! &#8211; Part I</strong></p>
<p>We&#8217;ve all had it; our first school play, first spelling bee, first time speaking in public&#8230;.  <strong>Stage Fright</strong> is a difficult obstacle to overcome.  But I&#8217;m not talking about the fear of being on stage; I&#8217;m talking about <strong>the fear of staging&#8230;Home Staging. </strong></p>
<p>Even  if you&#8217;ve been in the design business for years and feel comfortable  and confident talking to clients, even if you&#8217;ve taken training classes  and become certified in Home Staging, you know what to do, you know how  to do it, but your <strong>&#8220;Stage Fright&#8221;</strong> is stopping you.</p>
<p>I heard this from so many of my Home Staging and Redesign students that I decided to come up with a solution; <strong>a solution that brings you as close as you can to get to a <a href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=mssho8bab&amp;et=1108002314063&amp;s=0&amp;e=0011QSG1NFDipSI5NK18rYhtWul3gVxspwX0TthASKroKaJr9H48YupNid7zrHSKzDsW5yGx9YnqOYomMC1PlaOGk_PLQUTZ1YmwIOzenVrZ0B5kwRG_Qytf-X84DI8DC_tN-uieCML4Qc=" target="_blank">&#8220;real, live&#8221; home staging</a></strong> without actually being there.</p>
<p>Walk  with me and Sterling, a Home Staging student, as we stage a home for  sale.  We take a look at everything from curb appeal, the exterior of  the home and then move inside and begin the transformation.</p>
<p>You have heard that <strong>Location, Location, Location</strong> is important in selling real estate, well, we as Home Stagers can&#8217;t do  anything about the location of the home but we can place furniture and  accessories inside the home in a manner that shows off its features.  In  the <strong>&#8220;Live&#8221; videos</strong>, watch me and Sterling as we discuss  and decide upon furniture and accessory placement in order to draw the  potential buyer&#8217;s eyes to the <strong>focal point and highlights of the room. </strong></p>
<p>While we&#8217;re on the subject of Location, Location, Location, let me share one of my favorite trade tips&#8230;<em><strong>It is not what you have &#8211; it is where you put it.</strong></em> A successfully staged home will have a sense of balance and proportion  with the furniture and accessories.  Here are a few tips to help you  achieve that goal:</p>
<p><strong>Reading the Room</strong> &#8211; You read the room from left to right, just as you read a book.  Keep your eyes moving smoothly around the room by <strong>creating highs and lows,</strong> much like an undulating wave or the shape of an S curve on its side.   Use accessories, artwork, and window treatments to help build the highs  and lows.</p>
<p><strong>Let Shapes Lead You</strong> &#8211; Use the shapes of the room and the shapes of the items in the room to  help guide you in your design process.  For example, an angle built  into a room, such as a fireplace built into a corner, dictates that you  place a piece of furniture in the room on a corresponding angle in order  to achieve a <strong>sense of balance</strong> so the room can &#8220;feel&#8221; right.</p>
<p><strong>Like with Like</strong> &#8211; Similar shapes work best when they are together.  If you have a short  wall and a tall wall, typically your short furniture piece will go on  your short wall, and your tall furniture will go on your tall wall.   This also works with a horizontal piece of art over a long sofa or using  small accessories in a small room and large accessories in a large  room.  Think <strong>tall with tall, small with small, narrow with narrow, wide with wide</strong>.</p>
<p>You will learn even more tips and tricks of Home Staging in the <strong><a href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=mssho8bab&amp;et=1108002314063&amp;s=0&amp;e=0011QSG1NFDipSI5NK18rYhtWul3gVxspwX0TthASKroKaJr9H48YupNid7zrHSKzDsW5yGx9YnqOYomMC1PlaOGk_PLQUTZ1YmwIOzenVrZ0B5kwRG_Qytf-X84DI8DC_tN-uieCML4Qc=" target="_blank">&#8220;Live&#8221; Home Staging videos</a></strong>.  Learn why we do the things we do and most of all, <strong>gain the confidence</strong> that you need to stage a home on your own.  And, just like the fancy TV  shows, we even captured the homeowner&#8217;s reaction when they walked in to  see their newly transformed space.</p>
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		<title>Online Certified Training is HERE!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2011 10:49:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finally!  After what has been too too long, the online &#8220;live video&#8221; certified training I have been developing is finally available &#8211; and at a great introductory price! You can get fully certified in Home Staging or Real Estate Staging &#8211; or - if you&#8217;ve always just wanted to know and see the process for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Finally!  After what has been too too long, the online &#8220;live video&#8221; certified training I have been developing is finally available &#8211; and at a great introductory price! </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">You can get fully certified in Home Staging or Real Estate Staging &#8211; or -<br />
</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">if you&#8217;ve always just wanted to know and see the process for home staging OR redesign &#8211; you can get THAT video online training too!</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Check it out at <a href="http://www.certifiedprohomestaging.com">www.certifiedprohomestaging.com</a> for ALL of the info &#8211; and let me know what you think!!!</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Best,</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">PS &#8211; the actual videos are much more clear and crisp than the samples shown on the page. <img src='http://www.yourdesignbizblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<description><![CDATA[Malcolm Gladwell is the author of The Tipping Point and Blink - two books I read when they came out and I loved them both. I actually learned about The Tipping Point in a class I attended at the Expo several years ago [I'm speaking at the next one in May - hope you can [...]]]></description>
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</strong> <span style="font-size: x-small;"><strong>Malcolm Gladwell is the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Tipping-Point-Little-Things-Difference/dp/0316346624/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268313455&amp;sr=8-4">The Tipping Point</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Blink-Power-Thinking-Without/dp/0316010669/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268313455&amp;sr=8-5">Blink </a></strong>- two books I read when they came out and I loved them both.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I actually learned about The Tipping Point in a class I attended at the <strong><a href="http://www.wf-vision.com/expo.aspx">Expo</a> </strong>several years ago [I'm speaking at the next one in May - hope you can be there!] and it was so good that I made it a point to continue to look out for his new books.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>For Christmas this year I asked for his new book -<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Outliers-Story-Success-Malcolm-Gladwell/dp/0316017922"> Outliers &#8211; The Story of Success</a>.</strong> And not surprisingly &#8211; I loved it!  <strong>The man is an incredible story teller</strong>, and he looks at things differently which makes you think about things differently &#8211; and I truly found the book fascinating.  So I decided to tell him.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I found his website online, went to the contact us page and sent him an email.  Told him I loved his book(s) and if he was ever in town I&#8217;d be happy to host him for dinner.  (My sister pointed out that Holden Caulfield from <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Catcher-Rye-J-D-Salinger/dp/0316769177/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1268314341&amp;sr=1-1">Catcher in the Rye </a>said something to the effect of <strong> &#8220;you know you&#8217;ve read a good book when you want to have dinner with the author.&#8221; </strong> I do love J.D. Salinger so I decided I keep good company.)<br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">And not too long afterwards &#8211; he wrote back.  <strong>He hit reply &#8211; he wrote back</strong>.  He said thanks for taking the time to write &#8211; I appreciate it.   That was it.  And it knocked my socks off.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I immediately forwarded it to all of my family and told them that <strong>I want Malcolm to be my new best friend</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">So that&#8217;s it.  Simple but Powerful.  <strong>All the man did was reply graciously to an email.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Think about what&#8217;s going on in your life.  Who has been in touch with you that you haven&#8217;t gotten back in touch with?  What potential client called and you didn&#8217;t return the call?  Who sent an email &#8211; maybe even a potential client- and somehow you let it slip through the cracks?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I talk to a lot of designers and when I ask them about this &#8211; getting back in touch with people who they have let slip through the cracks &#8211; they often say it is too late, too much time has gone by and they missed the chance.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Personally,<strong> I don&#8217;t believe there is any such thing as  &#8220;only having one chance to do something right.&#8221; </strong> I think there are lots and lots and lots of chances, new ones every day, and no matter how long ago the contact was made -<strong> you can STILL get back in touch.</strong> As always- simply be truthful.  Try &#8220;I don&#8217;t know how this slipped through the cracks.  Are you still in need of some help with your design project?  If so &#8211; I&#8217;d love to speak with you.  If not, good luck with your project and hope it turns out great.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">It is these<strong> simple yet powerful things that really make a difference for people</strong> &#8211; it is why they remember you later. </span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">What simple thing have you done lately?  Tell me about it below &#8211; I&#8217;d love to know. I&#8217;d also love to know if any of you now take the opportunity to get in touch with someone you let fall through the cracks &#8211; leave your comment below!</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success,</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>PS</strong> &#8211; If you read last week&#8217;s blog you know I am a fan of Art Sobczak &#8211; well, he and I are on the same wavelength again!  Check out is story about &#8220;doing the little things&#8221; -<a href="http://www.businessbyphone.com/TelE-Sales3-10-10.htm"> Low-Tech, high touch for Big impact. </a><br />
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		<title>The Perfect Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 23:33:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My life is filled with moments that are always crazily connected. At the very least, it makes everyday events a lot more interesting as I wait to see how it is all going to connect and come together &#8211; I call these moments &#8220;God Moments.&#8221; [For a great book based on one man's life/business and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><strong>My life is filled with moments that are always crazily connected. </strong> At the very least, it makes everyday events a lot more interesting as I wait to see how it is all going to connect and come together &#8211; <strong>I call these moments &#8220;God Moments.&#8221;</strong> [For a great book based on one man's life/business and on how we are all connected through God you might want to check out <strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Synchronicity-Inner-Leadership-Joseph-Jaworski/dp/1576750310/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1267545856&amp;sr=8-1">Synchronicity</a></strong> by Joseph Jaworski].</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">When these moments happen, it reassures me that <em>I am where I am supposed to be, doing the things I am supposed to be doing.</em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>This week my moment was about &#8211; of all things &#8211; making phone calls!</strong> And yes, it can apply to you too.  It all started with a phone call of my own.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>1. </strong> <strong>Last Thursday I called a past client and was very happy when she was ready to start another series of consulting calls with me.</strong><br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>2. </strong> The next day my handyman called to tell me he didn&#8217;t have any work, and what should he do.  I often coach him on business practices, and I often tell him he needs to reach out to past happy clients &#8211; those clients are your best source for new work or new referrals.  I asked him how many past clients he had reached out to (this is an ongoing discussion with us, so I knew the answer) and yep, not one. <strong> I told him I wasn&#8217;t going to talk to him anymore until he called 3 past happy clients.</strong> I also told him this call was easy to do &#8211; ask about their past work, and ask if they have any new work.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>3.</strong> Jokingly he says to me &#8211; So Mrs. Larsen, I know you love your backsplash, <strong>do you have any other work around the house, cabinetry, handyman, painting that you might want to have done?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>4.  And I DID</strong> &#8211; I had been meaning to call him for several weeks about some cracks in my ceiling &#8211; and had totally forgotten so I lined up some work for him that weekend.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>5. </strong> About 30 minutes later he called me back and said -<strong> it worked, it worked!</strong> The very first client he called said she didn&#8217;t know he did all those things, and she had a whole list for him to do. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>6. </strong> Then one of my consulting clients called for her weekly call.  <strong>I asked her what she had done since our last call to try to get some work and she said &#8211; you mean besides pull my hair out?</strong> So we talked about the fact that <span style="color: #000000;">she has never not once in her 6 years of business &#8211; beyond initial follow up right after a project &#8211; called a client to see how they were doing and was there anything she could do for them or was there someone &#8220;just like them&#8221; that they would introduce her to by facebook or email to see if she could help them.  I told her the handyman story for encouragement.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>7.</strong> All of these things took place between Thursday and Tuesday. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>8.</strong> And Tuesday morning I received a marketing newsletter from one of my favorite marketers -<a title="Art Sobczak" href="http://www.BusinessByPhone.com "> </a><a title="Art Sobczak" href="http://www.BusinessByPhone.com ">Art Sobczak</a> &#8211; titled <strong>&#8220;Here&#8217;s the Best Time to Call a Prospect.&#8221; </strong> I swear I burst out laughing. A list of the BEST TIME to call someone.    Talk about reassurance that I am in the right place, doing the thing I am supposed to do!  Here is a link to <a href="http://www.businessbyphone.com/TelE-Sales3-2-10.htm">his newsletter</a> &#8211; you might want to check it out for even more ideas. </span>And here&#8217;s a little secret &#8211; the real answer for calling a past great client is <em><strong>any time</strong></em> &#8211; because you need to take action to make action happen in your business.</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>9. </strong> My favorite tip from his list &#8211; <strong>A buyer wishes they could find a vendor (replace designer for the word vendor) who &#8220;gets it right the first time&#8221;.</strong> Ah, I love that!!!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">So.  <strong>How long has it been since you CALLED a past client? </strong> How long has it been since you reached out rather than waited for someone to call you?  <strong>Don&#8217;t overthink it -just pick up the phone and call.</strong> Really. That simple.  And comment below and let me and everyone else know how it goes &#8211; I&#8217;m confident it will be great.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success,</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>-Mary Larsen</strong></span></p>
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		<title>Work Less and Make More Money Article</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 14:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am very pleased to say that I was recently featured in the latest issue of Window Fashion Vision magazine.  It was on my favorite topic &#8211; helping women in the design field make more money &#8211; and not just give all of their talents away. This was one of those great articles where I [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am very pleased to say that I was recently <strong>featured in the latest issue of Window Fashion Vision magazine</strong>.  It was on my favorite topic &#8211; <strong>helping women in the design field make more money</strong> &#8211; and not just give all of their talents away.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">This was one of those great articles where I was asked to submit the article, went to bed that night, and woke up with a whole LIST of things that can be done.  I love it when that happens. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In fact, that was one of the reasons I went into consulting with people in the design field.  I started having ideas about how to <strong>make my business better and more profitable</strong> show up  in the middle of the night <strong>- and </strong>-those ideas <em><strong>worked.</strong> </em>It&#8217;s very cool.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Just click <a title="Work Less and Make More Money" href="http://www.wf-vision.com/viewarticle.aspx?cid=126773&amp;pid=587">HERE</a> to enjoy the article in full</strong> &#8211; I know you&#8217;ll like it.  And please leave me a comment and share what you think!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Here&#8217;s to Designing Your Success,</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></p>
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		<title>Stilettos and Ladders</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 13:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite things about vacation is the ease in which I get through many books &#8211; lots fiction, lots non-fiction, lots completely work related.  This past week I had the great pleasure to read Climbing the Ladder in Stilettos - 10 Strategies for Stepping Up to Success and Satisfaction at Work by Lynette [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;">One of my favorite things about vacation is the ease in which I get through many books &#8211; lots fiction, lots non-fiction, lots completely work related.  This past week I had the great pleasure to read<strong> <a title="www.lynettelewis.com" href="http://www.lynettelewis.com/online_store_books.html">Climbing the Ladder in Stilettos </a>- 10 Strategies for Stepping Up to Success and Satisfaction at Work by <a title="www.lynettelewis.com" href="http://www.lynettelewis.com/">Lynette Lewis</a>. </strong>It was suggested to me by my fabulously talented sister <a title="McGuireConsulting.us" href="http://www.mcguireconsulting.us">Nancy McGuire</a> who runs a consulting business that helps organizations with leadership development.  Turns out that a lot of the issues that face women in the corporate arena face women in ANY work situation &#8211; even little orgs like my business and potentially a lot of yours, such as home staging, redesign, drapery design and interior design.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">The book is GREAT (and I highly recommend it as a gift to any woman in the corporate world who needs a bit of encouragement and support) and was filled with very valuable lessons.  <strong>But ONE thing really really REALLY stood out for me, and was found in Lynette&#8217;s opening remarks on page 4.</strong></span></p>
<p><em><strong><span style="color: #000000;">&#8221; We are all waiting and yearning for something&#8221;</span></strong></em></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Regardless of the situation we are in &#8211; how great it seems to be or even how bad &#8211; we are all always waiting and yearning for something. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Lynette goes on to say it is the<strong> tension between our VISION (that thing we are yearning for) and the Challenges of WAITING that often bring discouragement and stress. </strong>And I don&#8217;t know about you &#8211; but yes!  Waiting for the vision to become reality DOES bring discouragement and stress. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The book is intended to help you become more satisfied in your what you do with the majority of your time -<em>work -</em> and the 10 lessons shared can help you do just that.  The first several chapters work on the theme of <strong>&#8220;Finding Meaning in the Job You Have NOW!&#8221;</strong> &#8211; not yearning and waiting for a better job or a better situation that will surely bring you that meaning &#8211; but finding the meaning in your <em>current </em>job.  Later chapters work on moving from &#8220;Great Ideas to Dreams Come True. &#8221;<br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">I think the final chapter is one of my favorites &#8211; &#8220;Different than What I Thought &#8211; Better than What I Imagined.&#8221;  Cause really &#8211; <strong>when does IT show up just like you thought?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Having just been through a serious case of burnout (and taking a good 10 days off to cure it!) this book was just what I needed &#8211; <strong>a compassionate look at appreciating and enjoying the work you do now,</strong> as you prepare for what comes next &#8211; since we are all &#8220;waiting and yearning&#8221; for that elusive &#8220;something.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">What is it that you are &#8220;waiting&#8221; for &#8211; what do you think it will &#8220;get&#8221; you &#8211; and is there maybe, maybe, just a chance that what you have now is giving you <em>some</em> of what you are waiting for?  <strong>When you find some of that in where you are now&#8230; perhaps the wait won&#8217;t feel so long.  Feel free to leave a comment!!</strong><br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Have a great week!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></p>
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		<title>Understanding and Graciousness</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I mentioned last week, I have been going gang busters for months now and it has become crucial that I take that much needed break &#8211; which I will be doing starting Friday. One of  the things that I mentioned that happens to me when I am stretched too thin is I get &#8220;dumb&#8221; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="pastedDivNode" style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">As I mentioned last week, I have been going gang busters for months now and it has become crucial that I take that much needed break &#8211; which I will be doing starting Friday.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">One of  the things that I mentioned that happens to me when I am stretched too thin is I get &#8220;dumb&#8221; and make lots of little mistakes and create a lot of general nuisance for myself and others around me.</span></strong></div>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">This has happened several times over the past week, ranging from going to a showroom to pick things out for a client and not having the client&#8217;s file with me, to setting up conference calls with my old and new mastermind groups and completely messing up the scheduling, resulting in way too  much confusion and way too much email back and forth to get things straightened out.</span></div>
<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">So it&#8217;s irritating and a big bother for everyone involved but yes, <strong>eventually this stuff starts to have an impact beyond annoying and into downright unprofessional. </strong>Which is what happened yesterday.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">Over a year ago a former student of mine loaned me some material knowing that I would enjoy the information.  I did enjoy the information, and was happy she had shared.  In the meantime, I did NOT return the material to her (I can&#8217;t even imagine what excuse I came up with in my head) it just sat in my bookshelf where it has always sat.  Until I remodeled my kitchen &#8211; which is next to my office &#8211; so the next thing you know nothing is where you think it is.  Which I didn&#8217;t know til Monday, when my student called and said hey, drop my stuff in the  mail to me.  So I marched right to my bookshelf &#8211; and it&#8217;s gone.  It&#8217;s not there.  And it&#8217;s not there in that way that I am 99% sure that I am never going to see it again.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">I was just sick about it. <strong> Talk about not being considerate!</strong> Here a STUDENT of mine who is willing to look to me as a mentor loans me her personal things and I was not considerate enough to return them promptly and THEN actually lose them!  For real!  I went into damage control mode and was able to track down another copy of the material for her &#8211; but that&#8217;s not the point.  The point is:</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>She was crazy understanding and unbelievably gracious when I told her what happened </strong>(and as I expressed my complete embarrassment and unprofessionalism).  And later as I reflected I realized I had not been the same to her in regards to her things.  And.  EVERYONE who I have been infringing upon in my state of &#8220;stretched too thin&#8221; has been incredibly kind and gracious.  So.  My request of you this week is to reflect on your behavior &#8211; are YOU being as kind as gracious as you can be?  Not in just your personal life but your business life?  Are you being understanding of your clients in this shakey economic time? And are you being understanding of yourself?</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">My thanks and gratitude to those of you who have been and consistently are kind, gracious and understanding.  I strive to be the same.</span></strong></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></div>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 10:05:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I need a break. I wish it could be as simple as the Kit Kat candy bar commercial - imagine humming the &#8220;break me off a piece of that Kit Kat bar!&#8221; little ditty - it kind of brings a smile to your face. However, I have found over the past week that though I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="pastedDivNode" style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>I need a break. </strong> I wish it could be as simple as the Kit Kat candy bar commercial -<strong> imagine humming the &#8220;break me off a piece of that Kit Kat bar!&#8221; little ditty </strong>- it kind of brings a smile to your face.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>However, I have found over the past week that though I have eaten a dozen Kit Kat bars and many other delectable chocolates &#8211; it&#8217;s not that easy. </strong> I truly, really need a break.   And perhaps not surprisingly, one of the outward signs that I actually do need a break is the amount of chocolate I am consuming!</span></div>
<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">So here&#8217;s the deal &#8211; nothing new to a lot of you.  I have been going virtually non-stop since last November.  Yes, I have had a couple of slow weeks and a couple of great vacations &#8211; but it has been all out for many, many months as I have been working on the 2nd edition of my book, putting together a complete online training system for home staging and redesign INCLUDING actually filming a staging and redesign, as well as keeping up with design clients and have made a serious attempt at moving a whole piece of my business online.  And as the saying goes &#8211; what comes up, must come down, and I need a break.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Clues you need a break.</strong></span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Not feeling great &#8211; feeling out of sorts. </strong> This is SO OUT OF CHARACTER for people of high energy and motivation that when it happens we <strong>REALLY </strong>fight it.  We often think we can just power through, cause hey!  We get through anything and like it! <strong> Feeling &#8220;not quite right&#8221; can be the first sign that you are stretched too thin.</strong></span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>2.  Not accepting you are stretched too thin.</strong> So this is a double edged sword &#8211; you are always stretched &#8211; why should today be any different?  Usually this is how you love to operate.  <strong>The operative word there is USUALLY.</strong> It is very hard to accept that perhaps at this exact moment we need a break.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>3.  Not wanting to go to work.</strong> It&#8217;s an odd feeling when you love what you do but you find yourself dragging your feet, putting things off, sighing all the time how tired you are, doing anything <strong>(including watching old episodes of ER &#8211; it would have been NYPD Blue but I couldn&#8217;t find it!) </strong>to put off doing your work.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>4.  Not accepting that burnout can lead to resentment and actually beating ourselves up for being weak! </strong> We can do anything &#8211; we prove it all the time.  But man do we resist actually accepting and taking responsibility to stop to recharge the batteries.  And in fact, can <strong>actually be embarrassed or feel guilty to admit it! </strong>Now I know there are &#8220;real&#8221; problems in the world, but burnout leads to resentment which leads to not sharing our gift &#8211; and what good will that do?</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>5. And as mentioned earlier &#8211; finding yourself eating a LOT MORE of your favorite foods </strong>(in a failed attempt to feel better) and avoiding your daily walk or workout cause again &#8211; you&#8217;re just too tired.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">So this is where I am today and yes &#8211; clearly &#8211; I need a break.  And as I give myself permission to take that break exactly 10 days from now for a full week &#8211; and MORE if I need it! -<strong> this is what I will keep in mind:</strong></span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>1.  Taking a break and NOT WORKING for one week (or more if I need it!)</strong> will let me see my business as a whole again, not these tiny little pieces that I have been solely focused on.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>2.  It will help me regroup </strong>and see if the things I am working on are REALLY what my business needs.  Or did I just get sidetracked in all of the &#8220;stuff&#8221; and maybe these things don&#8217;t even fit my business plans anymore.</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>3.  It will help me rejuvenate,</strong> so that my intuition comes back <strong>(I don&#8217;t know about you, but I get &#8220;dumb&#8221; and make lots of mistakes when I am burned out!)</strong> and I can use all of my talents at work &#8211; not just drive!</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>4.  It will help me appreciate again why I have my own business</strong></span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>5.  It will help me move from burn out to appreciation again to be in a position to help other women make more money in their business as I make more money in mine &#8211; now what isn&#8217;t there to appreciate??!</strong></span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">So do you need a break?  What are you doing to keep yourself balanced, centered, and in a state of appreciation?  I&#8217;d love to know &#8211; leave a comment below!  Have a great week,</span></div>
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<div style="display: inline;"><span style="color: #000000;">-Mary Larsen</span></div>
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